Bad times at Facebook High

ATTENTION BREAKING NEWS: FACE BOOK IS NOT REAL, I REPEAT FACE BOOK IS NOT REAL. In other words it doesn't constitute actual human interaction. If you are one of those people that live vicariously through your facebook status please feel free to delete me, no hard feelings. I, nor the rest of the world care when you have to do your business, while it is entertaining we do not need to read about the controversy that is or isn't your relationship status. Where I come from we do our laundry at home, if we have a problem we take it out at home. Seriously though, there is just to much emphasis put on facebook. If you read a status and believe that it is about you it probably is, but be adult enough to pick up the phone and CALL, yes I said CALL not TEXT that person and ask them what the heck their problem is. Facebook has taken away most peoples ability to communicate with one another in a actual face to face manor. Daily I read about the drama that unfolds in a lot of your lives and I shake my head and laugh. If I were having marital problems, family issues, or just personal problems I would never share them with the world of facebook. You do realize once you put something out on the inter-net it is there FOR EVER... and some day if they don't already your children will be able to read. Do you really want them to see the names that you or your ex have called each other. I don't know.. I sure wouldn't. Facebook has tore families apart believe me I know from first hand experience the damage that facebook can do. I am not going to hash out the details of it because it is not appropriate, and my mother taught me that if I don't have anything nice to say I shouldn't say anything at all.

Another reason this social network irritates me is, it does not substitute calling or going by and physically visiting with a member of your family or close friends. If you don't call and invite me I am not coming to your kids birthday party because you sent me an invite on facebook, if you really wanted me there you would have picked up the phone and invited me. Use the network the way it is intended to be used for networking, sharing photo's, updating far away family on how your family is doing, and as an information pool. So the moral to my blog is learn what is acceptable and don't put up anything you arn't prepared to stand behind if you are called out on it. Don't be elusive if you have a problem have the balls to deal with it.

No Fat Chicks

 It is not a secret that  I am over weight, I have been the

majority of my life.  It has been a battle through the years but 
now I am comfortable in my own skin, I love me for me not because of what I weigh. My husband loves me unconditionally and my family for the most part accepts me for me.  I know it does bother a few of them but they are just worried about the health risks.  I go to the doctor on a regular basis and he tells me every time he sees me I am the healthiest fat person he has ever seen. So I am good.  Really, I am happy the way I am I am not going to starve my self, or worry my self to death at the gym.  I have started cutting back on a few things just to combat the fact that I am not working and possibly not getting as much activity as usual but, nothing drastic.

Any way... on to what really pissed me off yesterday... had his children not been with him I would have told him how the cow eats the cabbage.  I was leaving walmart yesterday and a guy I went to school with came walking out in a bright yellow shirt that said “NO FAT CHICKS”.  Now, I usually just shrug off  peoples ignorance but for some reason this struck a cord with me like it has never before.  In my opinion he was degrading all women. What an example he was setting for his son? Not only that but this guy is Married and his wife over the years has weighed more then is socially attractive on her frame from time to time.  Even more he has two daughters and at least that many sisters and his sisters are just as plump as can be.  He might as well be walking around in a shirt that said KKK, or I hate Indians.  It's hate and the world has enough of it. So don't contribute to it DUH! Now, he probably has no idea how offensive that shirt actually is or maybe he does and he is just trying to be a mean jerk.  I am okay, I'm not going to kill my self over it, but I do know girls that are not as confident in the body as I am.  There is far to much emphasis put on weight and what size one should be.  Every one has issues with their body type it is NORMAL.  Be confident in who you are find your happy place and enjoy it, but don't complain about it if you aren't doing any thing to make it better. You are not going to loose weight or firm muscles by setting on the couch. If you want to change to be happy then do so but if you want to be fat and happy do that to, what every you do rock it out.  I truly do owe my confidence to my husband though he loves me so and tells my that I am beautiful everyday.  There are many girls out there with out the support system in place and crap like that guy was wearing is what makes them scared to be confident.  I am all for being able to have your own opinion and the right to print said opinion but as long as it does no harm unto others. Basically don't be a douche because words hurt.

I guess we should get to know each other first, it makes things less awkward, right? My name is Beth, I am 27 years old and I have the greatest family in the world. Yes, even better then yours. (haha) I am incredibly conceited, a bit arrogant at times, overly opinionated and I combat all stages of emotion with sarcasm and my own twisted sense of humor, so look out.  I recently left the world of work and am blessed with some time to spend at home so I am mommin' it out.  I plan on going back as soon as the right opportunity comes along. I am done working for ungrateful jerkface mo- fo's.

I am married to one of the most handsome men in the entire world His name is Nick, he likes to refer to him self as his imaginatively awesome alter ego Nicoli but I call him Nick and a few other things behind closed doors.  He isn't all looks though ladies... he is a great husband, father,and he is my very best friend.
 

 

We created to most beautiful children in the world. Emma is 8, and is the kindest, loving, giving child there has ever been. I am not sure that I am her mother. I think Nick might have been fooling around... Just kidding she is a great kid and I would be lost with out her. 

LilyAnn is my “mini me”. She is all the things I stated about myself only 10 times more. When I was a  child my mother used to tell me I hope you get a kid just like you! Well guess what her dreams came true.  I find my self apologizing to her on a daily basis.  Lily is loud and crazy and keeps me on my toes, I am sure that you all will get great amusement from the adventures in LilyLand.